Automatic merge from submit-queue (batch tested with PRs 40234, 45885, 42975)

Fed target cluster by label for sync controller

[use clusterselector w/ federated configmap deploys](https://github.com/kubernetes/kubernetes/pull/40234/commits/667dc7744475878749acdf972d54bc11f28b993d)

**What this PR does / why we need it**: adds the ability to indicate objects are sent to subsets of federated clusters ref #29887 

**Which issue this PR fixes** *(optional, in `fixes #<issue number>(, fixes #<issue_number>, ...)` format, will close that issue when PR gets merged)*: fixes

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