Automatic merge from submit-queue (batch tested with PRs 45826, 45747, 45548, 45606, 41766)

prevent pods/status from touching ownerreferences

pods/status updates touching ownerreferences causes new fields to be dropped.

I think we really want to protect our metatdata by default with something like https://github.com/kubernetes/kubernetes/pull/45552 .  This fixes the immediate problem.

```release-note
prevent pods/status from touching ownerreferences
```

@derekwaynecarr @eparis