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Add --server-dry-run flag to `kubectl apply`

- Adds the flag
- changes the helper so that we can pass options for patch,
- Adds a test to make sure it doesn't change the object

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**Which issue(s) this PR fixes** *(optional, in `fixes #<issue number>(, fixes #<issue_number>, ...)` format, will close the issue(s) when PR gets merged)*:
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**Release note**:
```release-note
Add new `--server-dry-run` flag to `kubectl apply` so that the request will be sent to the server with the dry-run flag (alpha), which means that changes won't be persisted.
```