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bazel: stamp multiple packages by using x_defs instead of linkstamp in go_binary rules

**What this PR does / why we need it**: Fixes regression introduced sometime in the last few months that prevented bazel-built clusters from identifying version properly. 

It does so by updating the bazelbuild/rules_go and kubernetes/repo-infra dependencies to support using stamp values in `go_binary` `x_defs`, and then changing our `go_binary` rules to use `x_defs` instead of `linkstamp`.

This whole charade is necessary because we need to stamp version information in multiple packages.

This pretty much only affects the bazel build, so it should be low risk.

**Which issue this PR fixes** *(optional, in `fixes #<issue number>(, fixes #<issue_number>, ...)` format, will close that issue when PR gets merged)*: fixes #45298

**Special notes for your reviewer**: depends on https://github.com/kubernetes/repo-infra/pull/18; should not be merged before it.

**Release note**:

```release-note
NONE
```

/assign @spxtr @mikedanese