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Do not count failed pods as unready in HPA controller

**What this PR does / why we need it**:
Currently, when performing a scale up, any failed pods (which can be present for example in case of evictions performed by kubelet) will be treated as unready. Unready pods are treated as if they had 0% utilization which will slow down or even block scale up.

After this change, failed pods are ignored in all calculations. This way they do not influence neither scale up nor scale down replica calculations.

@MaciekPytel @DirectXMan12 

**Which issue(s) this PR fixes** *(optional, in `fixes #<issue number>(, fixes #<issue_number>, ...)` format, will close the issue(s) when PR gets merged)*:
Fixes #55630

**Special notes for your reviewer**:

**Release note**:
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Stop counting failed pods as unready in HPA controller to avoid failed pods incorrectly affecting scale up replica count calculation.
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