Automatic merge from submit-queue (batch tested with PRs 44722, 44704, 44681, 44494, 39732)

Fix issue #34242: Attach/detach should recover from a crash

When the attach/detach controller crashes and a pod with attached PV is deleted afterwards the controller will never detach the pod's attached volumes. To prevent this the controller should try to recover the state from the nodes status and figure out which volumes to detach. This requires some changes in the volume providers too: the only information available from the nodes is the volume name and the device path. The controller needs to find the correct volume plugin and reconstruct the volume spec just from the name. This required a small change also in the volume plugin interface.

Fixes Issue #34242.
cc: @jsafrane @jingxu97