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Avoid unnecessary DaemonSet collisionCount bump

**What this PR does / why we need it**: Sometimes DaemonSet controller will bump its collisionCount more than necessary when the collisionCount of the DaemonSet in the cache store hasn't been updated. This won't affect users, as collisionCount is only used for creating unique hash and the number doesn't matter as long as it changes. This fix avoids the unnecessary collisionCount updates and de-flakes the DaemonSet test for collisionCount. 

**Which issue(s) this PR fixes** *(optional, in `fixes #<issue number>(, fixes #<issue_number>, ...)` format, will close the issue(s) when PR gets merged)*:
Fixes #67273

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**Release note**:

```release-note
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