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Eliminate extra CRI call during processing cpu set

**What this PR does / why we need it**:

Encountered this during `kubernetes/frakti` node e2e test.

When cpuset is not set, there's still plenty of `runtime.UpdateContainerResources` been called, which seems unnecessary.

cc @ConnorDoyle Make sense? Fixes: #53304

**Special notes for your reviewer**:

**Release note**:

```release-note
Only do UpdateContainerResources when cpuset is set 
```