Automatic merge from submit-queue

Node Conformance Test: Statically link apiserver

For #30122, #30174.
Based on #30116, #30198, #30200.

**Please only review the 4th PR.**

This PR is part of our roadmap to package node conformance test.
The 1st commit is from #30116, which started e2e services in a separate process.
The 2nd commit is from #30198, it statically linked etcd into the node e2e framework.
The 3rd commit is from #30200, it moved namespace controller into e2e services.

The 4th commit is new, it statically linked apiserver into the node e2e framework.

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