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Fix issue #55031 to remove dependence on package lxn/win

**What this PR does / why we need it**:
This PR fixes issue #55031 where kubelet.exe crashes on Windows Server Core. The root cause is that kubelet.exe depends on package lxn/win pdh and kernel32 wrapper for node metrics. However, opengl32.dll is not available in Server Core and lxn/win requires the presence of all win32 DLLs. 

This PR uses a slim win32 package JeffAshton/win_pdh since most win32 APIs needed are PDH API. Also this PR makes own implementation of GetPhysicallyInstalledSystemMemory until golang Windows syscall has it or lxn/win fixes opengl32 issue. Also this PR modifies the way to get Windows version.

**Which issue(s) this PR fixes** *(optional, in `fixes #<issue number>(, fixes #<issue_number>, ...)` format, will close the issue(s) when PR gets merged)*:
Fixes #55031

**Special notes for your reviewer**:

**Release note**:

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/sig windows
/sig node