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Capture pod startup phases as metrics

Learning from https://github.com/kubernetes/kubernetes/issues/60589, we should also start collecting and graphing sub-parts of pod-startup latency.

/sig scalability
/kind feature
/priority important-soon
/cc @wojtek-t 

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