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Improved event generation in volume mount,attach, and extend operations

**Which issue(s) this PR fixes** *(optional, in `fixes #<issue number>(, fixes #<issue_number>, ...)` format, will close the issue(s) when PR gets merged)*:
Fixes #57217

refactored mount, attach, extend operation's so that all failures generate events and event generation is more consistent.

```release-note
Improved event generation in volume mount, attach, and extend operations
```