Automatic merge from submit-queue (batch tested with PRs 49129, 50436, 50417, 50553, 47587)

add validation for fed-apiserver and apiserver run options

**What this PR does / why we need it**:

Add validation for fed-apiserver and apiserver run options

**Which issue this PR fixes** 

fixes #50552

**Special notes for your reviewer**:

This is a follow-up of #50135

**Release note**:

```release-note
NONE
```