Automatic merge from submit-queue (batch tested with PRs 52452, 52115, 52260, 52290)

Fixes device plugin re-registration handling logic to make sure:

- If a device plugin exits, its exported resource will be removed.
- No capacity change if a new device plugin instance comes up to replace the old instance.



**What this PR does / why we need it**:

**Which issue this PR fixes** *(optional, in `fixes #<issue number>(, fixes #<issue_number>, ...)` format, will close that issue when PR gets merged)*: fixes https://github.com/kubernetes/kubernetes/issues/52510

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