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fix session affinity for LoadBalancer service with ESIPP

**What this PR does / why we need it**:
fix session affinity for LoadBalancer service with ESIPP

**Which issue(s) this PR fixes** *(optional, in `fixes #<issue number>(, fixes #<issue_number>, ...)` format, will close the issue(s) when PR gets merged)*:
Fixes #63351

**Special notes for your reviewer**:
In cases that loadbalancer type service with externaltrafficpolicy=local and session-affinity specified, traffic to loadbalancer should only route to backends that in the same node with kube-proxy. 

**Release note**:
```release-note
NONE
```