Automatic merge from submit-queue

Fix node confomance test

Fixes https://github.com/kubernetes/kubernetes/issues/28255, https://github.com/kubernetes/kubernetes/issues/28250, https://github.com/kubernetes/kubernetes/issues/28341.

The main reason of the flake is that in the failed test expects the `PodPhase` to keep `Pending`. It did `Eventually` check and `Consistently` check for 5 seconds. However, the default `PodPhase` is `Pending`, when the check passes, the `PodStatus` could still be in default state.

After that, the test expects the container status to be `Waiting`, which may not be the case, because the default `ContainerStatuses` is empty, and the pod could still be in the default state.

This PR changes the test to ensure `ContainerStatuses` first and then check the `PodPhase` after that.

Mark P1 because the test fails relatively frequently and does block some PRs.

@pwittrock 

/cc @liangchenye @ncdc 
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