Automatic merge from submit-queue (batch tested with PRs 45556, 45561, 45256)

[Federation] Replace the indexing lister with a regular store in the replicaset controller

This is part of the refactoring work to allow the replicaset controller to use the generic sync controller.

None of the other controllers use a lister, including the deployment controller

**Release note**:
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