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set updated replicas

**What this PR does / why we need it**: 
Sets the `.status.updatedReplicas` field for stateful sets when they are being created. This behavior is consistent with how this field is handled in the deployments controller and also allows for `kubectl rollout status` to work when stateful sets are being created. 


**Which issue(s) this PR fixes** *(optional, in `fixes #<issue number>(, fixes #<issue_number>, ...)` format, will close the issue(s) when PR gets merged)*:
Fixes #52653

**Special notes for your reviewer**:

**Release note**:

```release-note
fix rollout status for statefulsets
```