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split up the huge set of flags into smaller option structs

**What this PR does / why we need it**:
To make generic, we do following work:

1.  Spliting `KubeControllerManagerConfiguration` in kube-controller-manager and cloud-controller-manager into fewer smaller struct options order by controller, and modify relative flag. Also part of #59483.
2. Spliting `componentconfig` in controller-manager into fewer smaller config order by controller too.

All works follow #59582, using `option+config` logic.

**Which issue(s) this PR fixes** *(optional, in `fixes #<issue number>(, fixes #<issue_number>, ...)` format, will close the issue(s) when PR gets merged)*:
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**Release note**:

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