kube-proxy currently checks for a bind address of 0.0.0.0 (IPv4 all-zeros)
when calculating kube-proxy's node IP, but it does not check for
an address of '::' (IPv6 all-zeros). For either of those all-zeros
addresses, the node IP should be determined based on the hostname,
rather than using the address directly.

Also added a helpful log message when the kube-proxy protocol is
determined to be IPv6.

fixes #52613