Automatic merge from submit-queue

Respect PDBs during node upgrades and add test coverage to the ServiceTest upgrade test.

This is still a WIP... needs to be squashed at least, and I don't think it's currently passing until I increase the scale of the RC, but please have a look at the general outline.  Thanks!

Fixes #38336 

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On GCE, node upgrades will now respect PodDisruptionBudgets, if present.
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