This commit wires together the graceful delete option for pods
on the Kubelet.  When a pod is deleted on the API server, a
grace period is calculated that is based on the
Pod.Spec.TerminationGracePeriodInSeconds, the user's provided grace
period, or a default.  The grace period can only shrink once set.
The value provided by the user (or the default) is set onto metadata
as DeletionGracePeriod.

When the Kubelet sees a pod with DeletionTimestamp set, it uses the
value of ObjectMeta.GracePeriodSeconds as the grace period
sent to Docker.  When updating status, if the pod has DeletionTimestamp
set and all containers are terminated, the Kubelet will update the
status one last time and then invoke Delete(pod, grace: 0) to
clean up the pod immediately.