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node e2e: improve the validate OOM score test for infra containers

The test blindly checked all "pause" processes on the node, assuming
they were all infra containers. This change takes a snapshot of all
existing "pause" processes on the node, and exclude them in the
validation. The test still relies on the fact that it runs exclusively
on the node. If that assumption changes, we will need other methods to
locate the PIDs of the infra containers.

This fixes #37580