Automatic merge from submit-queue (batch tested with PRs 45374, 44537, 45739, 44474, 45888)

Allow kcm and scheduler to lock on ConfigMaps.

**What this PR does / why we need it**:
Plumbs through the ability to lock on ConfigMaps through the kcm and scheduler.  

**Which issue this PR fixes** 
Fixes: #44857
Addresses issues with: #45415

**Special notes for your reviewer**:

**Release note**:

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Add leader-election-resource-lock support to kcm and scheduler to allow for locking on ConfigMaps as well as Endpoints(default) 
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